Okay - after doing some homework ended up getting a Kahr CW9 this go round.

Next item on the short order is a Glock 42... .380 pocket gun. Came across a deal I probably shouldn't pass on.

Then....the oldest has talked me into us both doing an AR build. Most probably either a Del-Ton or DPMS upper to start with...just a father/son build off kind of thing for fun. Considered .308 versus 5.56 but then looked at price difference in ammo. Don't think that will be happening.