We live just down the hill from the Pepsi Distributor's house and St Peter's cemetery is right behind us if that helps--

also --
one of the water towers is up the hill from us--it is on one the few flat spots around LOL

Looking 'north-ish'
We see a giant house (looks like stone in the binocs)across the river near a couple of big hills-Probably your place-there are 4 big white roofs to the east(?) of the stone house

I think Google says it takes and hour to drive the 30 miles from New Haven to Treloar

Fences and rivers make good neighbors eh??